Tue, 30 November 2021
How many of you find yourselves sitting in your home in the evening after being on your farm all day, tired from physical labor and thinking "this is exactly the life I want"? I had that experience on Sunday night, and it came on the tail end of a lot of physical work. This was just further proof to me that work is not the enemy, the wrong job is the enemy.
Sunday night was quite the opposite of the Sunday night's I used to experience. I used to get what I referred to as the "Sunday Night Blues". This was the depression and irritability that set in when I knew that once I went to bed, I would be waking up to go to a job that was the wrong fit. That does not happen to me any longer, but sitting in my living room, looking at my family, feeling physically tired, watching the dog lay in front of the fire and having a feeling of elation come over me is a whole other level. It is more than just the opposite of the "Sunday Night Blues", it is the next rung up the ladder.
When I first started this journey, I was just trying to get rid of the "Sunday Night Blues". I never imagined it could reach this level. Here is what my weekend looked like, and what led me to feeling so good on Sunday evening.
Friday - our kitchen sink had a catastrophic failure. Outside of chores, plumbing was on the schedule for me this day.
Saturday - all day was spent cutting up downed trees in our creek area, splitting them and stacking the wood for heat. Outside of our daily chores this took up our entire day. However, when the day was done and every day since I have been able to look at those stacks of split wood and see the progress that we made.
Sunday - after chores Autumm, Hattie and I got busy removing nose guards from our calves and separating them from their mothers. Then we started cleaning out a shed, purging things that we no longer need or use and storing some items in a storage shed on our new property. We have been "slow to grow" on our farm since we bought it in 2011. Instead of incurring debt for new outbuildings and storage to house our personal effects and the equipment we needed for our farm, we have dealt with the clutter of stuffing too many things into too little space. This has included doing things like tarping our lawn equipment over the winter to protect it from the weather.
Our patience and frugality has paid off, and now we have expanded. With the expansion came additional out buildings and a pre-existing pad that allowed us to put a shop up at minimal expense. This has acted as a pressure release for the clutter and yesterday I was able to treat the gas in our lawn equipment, pull the batteries and put them to bed for the winter under a roof rather than a tarp. It might seem like a small thing to say out loud, but for me it was a big step in the correct direction.
Just like nine years ago when started my very first business, I still have energy for days. I realized then and still realize today that your body does not magically need to rest and reboot at the end of an 8 hour work day. If you are doing something that you love, you can spend all your waking hours working and recharge on just your normal 7-8 hours of sleep.
Yesterday, even after the sun had gone down I was still working. I had smaller, indoor projects that needed to get done and I was happy to do them. By the time I put on my sweat pants, sat down in front of the fire and watched a little football we had cleaned out fallen timber in our creek, split cords of wood, stacked split wood, finished weaning calves, purged clutter, put away equipment for the winter and repaired and replaced small equipment at our home.
As I sat there and looked at my family and my home I realized that this was all I needed for happiness. I had not spent the weekend walking at a mall, entertaining Hattie at a theme park or taking in movie. All of that is fine every now and then, but it was the accomplishment of worthwhile activities at home that I was getting my fulfillment from. And it is this knowledge that gives me the peace and contentment that so many people cannot find. If you can love your work, you will always have this state of mind available to you.
I hope that in some small way, we can help you get there by listening to this show!